Dispatch #21 (November 2024)

By David Eisinger · View original post

Of all the ways I thought Tuesday’s election might go, Trump winning a decisive victory was not something I’d thought possible. 2016 felt so … illegitimate, between the popular vote discrepancy and all the Russia stuff. 2024 feels like the majority of America just wants what he’s selling.

I don’t know what the next four years will bring – our best case scenario is a bunch of chaos and incompetence; our worst is … pretty bad, a major restructuring of American life. I’m going to limit my exposure to all of his nonsense. I lost so much time during his first term on think pieces, Twitter threads, etc. that just made me feel like shit.

It feels kind of dumb putting this post together in light of these major events, but, maybe, the values I’m trying to put out into the world – family, community, creativity, mindfulness around information consumption – are part of the solution to the problems we’re facing. Onward.


We went down to Wilmington to meet our new nephew/cousin. It was bonkers to see Nico alongside a fresh newborn. LOOK HOW BIG MY BOY IS. LOOK AT MY LARGE SON.

I ran the Bull City Race Fest half-marathon for the third year in a row, hitting a personal best time of 8:50/mile (result, certificate). Claire and Nev met me at around mile seven with a bottle of Gatorade that got me through the hilly final stretch.

We spent a weekend camping (“camping” – the cabins were, uh, quite plush) at Fairy Stone State Park with a big group of friends. Highlights included taking Nev out on a paddleboard, trick-or-treating between the cabins, and cooking a bunch of food for folks. Hope to be back in 2025.

I made several website updates this month:

Finally, I’ve had Ian Ewing’s Sunday on repeat all month. Check it out.

This Month

Reading

I’m a big fan of Four Thousand Weeks, Oliver Burkeman’s previous (anti-)time-management book. When I read the description of Meditations for Mortals, I was a little bit skeptical that it might just be trying to capitalize on the prior book’s success without much new to say. Happy to be wrong though! Each short chapter has given me something to reflect on. Favorite passage so far:

It’s not that systems for getting things done are bad, exactly. (Rules for meaningful productivity do have a role to play, and we’ll turn to some of them later.) It’s just that they’re not the main point. The main point – thought it took me years to realize it – is to develop the willingess to just do something, here and now, as a one-off, regardless of whether it’s part of any system or habit or routine. If you don’t prioritize the skill of just doing something, you risk falling into an exceedingly sneaky trap, which is that you end up embarking instead on the unnecessary and, worse, counterproductive project of becoming the kind of person who does that sort of thing.

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